On this page, you can find some websites, resources and information that may help you or your loved ones when it comes to Ethical Non-Monogamy and Polyamory.
Books, Reports, Articles and Publications
- Medium: Polyamory Today
All articles that are connected to Polyam and ENM. - Odder Being
Series of blog posts and information around ENM. - The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships, and Other Freedoms in Sex and Love; Janet W. Hardy & Dossie Easton
One of the leading books in Britain and America around all thinfs polyamory. It is open to communication, empathy, and safe fees and safer sex ptactice. - Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Non-Monogoamy: Jessica Fern
A practical guide to nurturing healthy, loving non-monogamous relationships using attachment theory. - A Basic Guide To Ethical Non-Monogamy: Thomas H. Brand
This offers an introduction to alternative ways of loving. This is a must-read for anyone curious about or practising ethical non-monogamy (ENM). It provides readers with the tools, knowledge, and confidence to build healthy, loving relationships that go beyond societal norms. - Opening Up: Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships: Tristan Taoramino
Drawing on in-depth interviews with over a hundred women and men, Opening Up explores the real-life benefits and challenges of all styles of open relationships – from partnered non-monogamy to solo polyamory. - Stepping Off the Relationship Escalator: Uncommon Love and Life: Amy Gahran
This book is a fun, intriguing introduction to unusual relationship options.If you want to explore unconventional relationships, or simply to understand your options, you’ll find guidance here.If you want to help people you know understand relationships that don’t follow the norm, this is a friendly starting point.
Polyamorous Organisations & Websites
- Polyamoryuk
Website with a variety of resources and links to other Polyam communities. - Polyamory.com
Active forum with lots of information and discussions around all things Polyam. - UKPA: UK Polyamory Association
The UK Polyamory Association (UKPA) seeks to increase public awareness and acceptance of polyamory, to challenge the stigma against it and to work against the normativity of monogamy as the default in our society. - Yorkshire OPEN
A support community for those in Yorkshire to help those in or curious about ENM relationships. - Discovering Polyamory
Helping you take those first steps on the journey to understanding ENM. - OPEN
A nonprofit dedicated to fostering the polyamory and non-monogamy movement by advancing cultureal acceptance, building political power, and supporting non-monogamous communities and leaders. - Poly Philia
Ran by Leanne Yau, this is one of the most well known and celebrated Poly led source of information for the community. - Ready for Polyamory
Ran by a relationship coach with 20 years lived experience in non-monogamy, this website is filled with blog articles and resources. - The Relationship Anarchy Smorgasbord
The board is a way to determine what you and a partner want out of your relationship with each other.

- UnicornsRUs
So, somebody called you a Unicorn Hunter? Understand what this is and how to behave more ethically.

All LGBTQIA+ Organisations
- GLAAD
US based, formed to fight the defamation and sensationalised HIV/AIDS coveraged in the 1980’s, this organisation fights for the rights of the LGBTQIA+ community. - Stonewall (UK)
Stonewall stands for lesbian, gay, bi, trans, queer, questioning and ace (LGBTQ+) people everywhere. - Galop
Galop is the UK’s LGBT+ anti-abuse charity. They work with and for LGBT+ victims and survivors of interpersonal abuse and violence. They have some excellent resources that are LGBTQIA+ inclusive. - LGBT Foundation
LGBT Foundation exists to support the needs of the diverse range of people who identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual and trans. - Switchboard LGBT+ Helpline
Providing help and support to the LGBTQIA+ and questioning community.
